Author · Trainer · Safety & Well-Being Leader
From federal law enforcement to director-level well-being leadership abroad. Now writing and training on what she's learned.
Federal police work. A Virginia sheriff's patrol. A master's in counter-terrorism with a cluster in cyber terrorism. More than three years leading student safety and well-being at an international university in Kuwait, on the ground in the Gulf through years of regional conflict.
Published Work
A practical guide to understanding your child's digital world, built on the Seven Shields Framework with concrete steps for every layer.
In two editions: the American edition, and a Gulf edition written for Gulf families and the situations unique to the region.
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A 13-page companion toolkit: conversation scripts, a device-checking walkthrough, an incident response flowchart, and a fill-in family safety plan.
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For law enforcement and security professionals moving into international careers.
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A practical guide to building a thriving cross-cultural marriage.
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Personal safety for women and families living abroad.
What She Brings
Safety is where the work starts, not where it ends. The rest is policy, systems, training, and people actually flourishing.
Led the behavioral intervention team, coordinating with academic affairs and student affairs to identify students at risk and build quiet support around them. Of the roughly 25 students her team supported, every one stayed enrolled except a single student who had to move away. She also facilitated the creation of the campus clinic and launched its first health and wellness expo, connecting students with local medical resources and therapy options.
The go-to for more than 3,100 students: the office of student conduct, every disciplinary action, every meeting with students, parents, and academic affairs, and every major investigation involving students or staff. In Kuwait, where adulthood legally begins at 21, much of that casework meant protecting minors. Her restorative approach of rapport, clear expectations, and empathy measurably reduced conduct cases, a drop her own KPIs tracked.
Led the Emergency Response Team for most of her tenure, responsible for every behavioral and medical incident on campus. Evacuated the university during dust storms, freed students from a trapped elevator in a power failure, led the Alertus emergency-notification rollout, and directed the AEOS access-control reprogramming. Worked security and press handling for events attended by members of the royal family and the ambassador, including walkthroughs and emergency planning with the university's security team for a GCC cyber-AI conference at the Four Seasons in Kuwait.
Wrote the university's accommodations policy with academic affairs and authored sections of the code of conduct. Built the SOPs, KPIs, academic-year forecast plans, and incident action plans leadership ran on.
Emergency Response Team training. Maxient case-management training for staff. University-wide presentations on the code of conduct and information security. One-on-one coaching for students, young adults, and women identifying and achieving their goals.
The Framework
Digital protection for children. Built on a counter-terrorism principle: real security is never one wall, but many layers, each covering the last one's gaps.
Every layer exists to protect something. Not just a device or an account, but a child's mind, emotions, and inner life. What kids consume digitally shapes who they become, and deserves the same attention we give their physical health.
The bond that makes your child come to you first. Your strongest shield.
Understanding the world your child actually lives in, so you can guide instead of guess.
The offline life that leaves a screen less room to fill.
Real, but the weakest of the shields you personally hold.
The staff who can act, sometimes faster than the law.
The task forces who investigate and educate, if you invite them in.
Necessary, and the slowest and weakest of all. It only engages after harm is done.
The framework has its own home at 7shields.org, including a free Family Readiness Assessment that scores all seven layers in about three minutes.
Background
A Master's in Government concentrated in counter-terrorism, with a cluster in cyber terrorism. A BA in International Relations from Liberty University. Federal credentials through the Federal Law Enforcement Training Centers, and state credentials through Virginia's Central Criminal Justice Academy.
As a police officer, she responded to thousands of calls for service, emergency and non-emergency alike: neighbor disputes, burglaries, domestic assaults, death investigations, and working with her department to locate runaways. Her patrol work earned a Life Saving Award for her part in saving a human life. On the federal side, she served with the U.S. Supreme Court Police in Washington.
Then more than three years at director level in student safety and well-being at an international university in Kuwait, a young institution where she built systems from the ground up. Over her tenure she supervised fourteen staff drawn from India, Kuwait, Egypt, Serbia, and beyond, managing departments spanning environmental health and safety, the campus clinic, student conduct, and cybersecurity. She has lived in the Gulf through the region's recent conflicts and traveled widely across the Middle East, with firsthand working knowledge of the American and regional landscapes alike.
Resilience is the thread through all of it. Two police academies, pepper spray more than once, a taser once. Leaving Washington, and a job she loved, to rebuild her life from the ground up in another culture, through years of regional conflict. When she writes and speaks about becoming resilient, it isn't theory.
The patrol years: receiving a Life Saving Award as a Virginia sheriff's deputy.
Presenting on information security and phishing awareness.
Work With Alexis
Sessions built from casework rather than headlines. Delivered live and virtually, so scheduling works across time zones and there is no travel cost to justify.
Schools, PTAs, churches
The evening a school runs for families. Practical and specific, so parents leave with something to do that week.
Teachers, counselors, administrators
What behavior change looks like before a disclosure, and what to do in the hour after one.
Ministry leaders, parent groups
The same material with a faith framing, for youth pastors and the families in their care.
Students, young adults, women
One-on-one work on identifying and reaching goals, built on the same resilience she writes about.
Get In Touch
For speaking, staff training, school and church licensing, bulk book orders, or press. Tell me your organization, roughly how many people you are trying to reach, and your timeline.
Resilience isn't theory. It's lived.
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